JOY TO THE “WOMAN REDISCOVERING HER SEXUALITY”
There is no age limit on sexuality and in fact, one of the benefits of being older is that we care less about what others think. We launched the sexual revolution. The boomer generation is the one that broke the chains of sexual oppression, with women taking ownership of their bodies, bringing premarital sex, homosexuality, masturbation, and kinks out from under the covers so to speak.
I wonder then how and why many of us are emerging on the other side of 45 prudish and disconnected from our sexuality? How did we go from indulging our fantasies with Erica Jong’s The Fear Of Flying to gasping at the lame vibrator for older women business of Jane Fonda’s and Lily Tomlin’s in Grace and Frankie?
Society has reined us in it seems. Aided by the media, we fetishize youth in the arena of sex. In the back of our mind, there is disquiet that the aged body is less desirable. It often begins with the changes in our body in our childbearing years. Even though we might have birthed a human, we struggle to embrace the new version of our body. Aging is a natural progression. The wonder of you is worthy of celebration and appreciation always.
Now is the time to embrace the power of your sexuality. Explore, understand and accept your body and let go of your fears and inhibitions. This gift list is for you whether you have a partner or not. Share it with your significant other or your girlfriends.
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Come As You Are
A fascinating read: Sexual wellbeing is the convergence of a woman’s mindset, stress, mood, trust, and body image.
Bra and Panty La Muliere by Samuel Yeung
Wearing beautiful lingerie is about claiming who we are at our most powerful: Women turned on by our own existence.
Crave Vesper Necklace Vibrator
Own your pleasure. Designed for beautiful experiences in public and in private, both as elegant jewelry and a strong slim external vibrator.
UVee® Pleasure Products UV-C Sanitizer Storage Case
There are three things you need to think about when storing your toys: dust, temperature, and accessibility. This is discreet enough to be left out on a shelf.
Lelo LUNA Beads
Strengthen the pelvic floor muscles and enhance your sexual pleasure.
Goddess Figure Candles
Handmade candles reflect the sensuous reality of our bodies with a message of positivity and inclusion.
Joylux vFit® Gold Intimate Wellness Device
Harness the power of red light, gentle heat, and sonic technology to improve strength, sensation, and natural lubrication.
Common Bond Lubricant
Resolve dryness and paint with this natural lubricant made with full-spectrum CBD as well as botanicals like lavender and sage.
Nipple Play Nipple Suckers
Experience intense nipple stimulation with this erotic toy.
Come Upstairs Massage Candle
This candle provides the ambiance AND heats up an all-natural moisturizing massage oil.
Brooklinen Luxe Core Sheet Set
Indulge yourself. Luxurious bedding is totally worth it. Quality sleep is the foundation of our sexual well-being.
Your Pelvic Floor: A Practical Guide to Solving Your Most Intimate Problems
Prioritize your pelvic floor health which will enhance your sexual wellbeing.
Breathe Tranquil Bubble Bath
Self-care is the best gift a woman can give herself. Slide into a bath surrounded by the gentle whisper of ruffled Peony & White Lily, fresh Grapefruit and Orange, blended into a luxurious formula of Olive Fruit and Avocado Oils.
Fitbit Versa Activity Tracker
Empower yourself with a deeper understanding of your body, health, and progress.
Handmade Hemp/ Silk Camisole & Boyleg French Knickers Set
Comfort is sexy and this camisole and knickers feel like a silky second skin.
Chanel No. 5 Parfume
The very essence of femininity this scent was the result of Chanel asking Ernest Beaux to create “a woman’s perfume with a woman’s scent”, rare and powerful, in 1921.
Dame The Beginner’s Luck
Explore your pleasure center with this lipstick vibe, g-spot vibe aloe-based lube, and a beautiful carrying case.
Coral app
An app that raises your awareness of balanced wellness including sex which is often overlooked.
Lelo Lyla 2
Get your pleasure to go. Remote-controlled vibe you can control and wear anytime anywhere.
Fifty Shades Of Grey Beaded Chain Nipple Clamps
An easy foray into S&M, ideal for stimulating yourself.
Le Chateau Wine Decanter
A glass of red wine makes anyone feel sexy.
Honey Pot Feminine Wipes
Gentle feminine wipes to go with no residue, artificial gragrane, PH balanced.
Snug Plug 1
The perfect first time butt plug for exploring anal sex.
ErikaLust Ethical Porn Subscription
Support ethical porn where health and safety of the actors and portrayal of men and women as equal collaborates are a given.
Babeland Workshops and Classes
Babeland is the famously fun, women-founded sex toy boutique known for top-quality products and honest sex information for a passionate world.
Sponsored by Women-Owned Businesses
GET YOUR BUSINESS listed in our weekly JOY TO THE WORLD Popup Shop until December 24
Color Street Nail Art
Dress your nails up to party. These stunning nail polish strips last for up to 10 days and take minutes to apply.
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TerrAdore Art Jewelry
Bold Organic Original Art Jewelry
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FDT Academy
Find your voice – it matters. Canada’s leading provider of Debate, Speech, and Model United Nations coaching
10% Discount Use Code atfortyfive
BYOV Mental Health Esthetic Studio
BYOV’s values are quality, inclusivity & genuine authenticity.
Esthetic Services
Kome Clothing
One Of A Kind Creations by Kjaer
Jackets, Ruana, Dresses, XS to 5X
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