Realizing that our love-life is not working out the way we want it can sometimes hurt.
Affirmations are short, simple and positive statements, best written in the present, to convince our subconscious that a shift in perception is needed and possible. We use the fact, that imagination is also somehow real for our brain. That is the whole “trick” of working with affirmations. No complicated, scientific explanations are necessary.
This week I want to share with you some insights on improving our experiences of love and romance.
Affirmation Of The Week
I am the loving partner myself, I want to have.
Self-love works close together with attracting an ideal partner.
How can we expect from someone else something we are not able to give? When we are caring our partner can be caring as well.
“I deserve and am worthy for a loving relationship.”
We should believe that we are more than good enough for a perfect match.
“I am open to receive and give love.”
This short and simple affirmation can be combined very effective with a breathing exercise:
I am open to receive (breathing in) and give (breathing out) love.
“I trust in life and see all the wonderful occasions for love and romance in my life.”
This powerful positive statement helps us to see ourselves in the bigger picture of life.
Of course, there is somebody out there who is the best person for us. But we need to be able to see the possibilities to meet a potential partner.
We can boost our trust and confidence in life with positive phrases.
They give us power to believe in miracles, also miracles in love and romance.
“I have the right to love and be loved.”
Here we go with a strong statement that is the essential condition for relationships with others and ourselves. In difficult times we often think, we do not have the right of love, we do not deserve love, we do not have the power of love and finally we are not willing to love.
“I am willing to change myself for a better love-life.”
Instead of searching for reasons in others and circumstances it is far more effective to connect with our inner world.
Honesty is the most important condition we need to cultivate.
We can be in a relationship and ask ourselves weather we want to continue it. We can ask: “Is this partnership still the one, I want to be in? If it is “a no” you can start with the affirmations above after ending it. And when you decide to stay with your partner following statements could help you to improve your contact, your communication and even your sex-life.
“We live a respectful and loving relationship. Our love grows more and more each day.”
“We both take care of the wishes and needs from each other. We cherish each other and are an uplifting inspiration for us and others.”
“Our love is based on trust and confidence and we are best friends and passionate lovers.”
“We are a perfect dream-team that always sees its loving fair play as its highest value.”
You can do a little experiment and write affirmations for your relationship down together. Both of you work with the same affirmations for a certain time, I would recommend for at least 3-7 days, and then you exchange your experiences.
I am sure you both will find at least one positive change in your partnership after using both the affirmations daily. Remember it is best done twice – in the morning and in the evening.
You can do this as a ritual together or alone. The examples I give here are encouragement to create your own positive phrases. As I said already in an earlier article:
There is no right or wrong, no better or worse.
Moreover there are so many possible affirmations. As you practice you will find more that suit you.
My intent is to give you a quick-start in order to feel and experience how positive words can change your whole being and the relationship with your partner.
The secret to affirmations lies in their repetition.
The subconscious is trained through: “again and again” until the new reality comes.
And you need to consider the fact that affirmations require we act correspondingly in order to come true. Just writing and verbalizing some beautiful sentences is not the deal.
We should be aware that we have also to take action.
May you have uplifting outcomes as you explore your own affirmations.